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The memories and us......

Just in case .....no one has told you today.... You all...., are amazing..! Caught  this memory somewhere : Remember that time when mummy-papa asked us to go and watch the time .. And we came back with the reply, “ ..Bada wala 8 par aur chhota 5 par “ Those good old days seem like so long ago !! We are getting older by time ....A look into the past is all we need . Back then we didn't realize we were making memories . We just knew we were having fun .  At the age we are , most of our best memories come from some old dirt road …No ? Sometimes these random memories make me smile no matter what is going on in my life right now. Then I smile even more at the thought of memories ,  yet to be made. We are all born to be real, not to be perfect. I used to think I was an introvert   ‘cause I enjoyed being alone ,   but it turns out that I really liked being in peace with myself and my surroundings.   Having said that ,   I am extremely extrovert with p...

Grapes !...Angooor..!

A friend told me I write lengthy. Today , I’ll cut it a bit short..Love you man ! No guarantee for the rest though…. --------------------------- A song  ‘ face ‘ from the classic movie “Khatta Meetha “ 'ye jeena hai..............angoor ka dana............, thoda khatta , thoda meeetha.....!! Ok , the men would agree..The men who like fine wine ..I have a tip for us, we men – Never say we are addicted to wine .. We’re just in a very committed relationship…😃😃😃😃😃 ummm.....I've already forgotten eveything !ðŸĪŠðŸĪŠ Let’s not worry for the people who are not happy for us ..they probably aren’t happy themselves either. People who want you in their lives , respect you whether you are grapes or fine wine , No ? You know how grapes are …squeeze it a little tighter and it gets destroyed.. But crush too many and out comes the wine.. We all have these defeated moments in life .. Crushed and left alone ..but when we are crushed like grapes, we cannot think of the fine wine we will be...

Temper Stories....

If you're not sure whether you have a temper , ask your firends - but don't get mad if you dislike...... It is a state where you cannot shake hands with a clenched fist...😃😃😃 “ A Wise man can always be found alone . A weak man can always be found in a crowd “ -Bruce Lee Controlling Temper during Rush Hour  : Carter : Lee, how do you manage to stay cool all the time ? Lee : Because I don’t get into arguments with stupid people . I just cut it short and say           ‘you are right ‘. Carter : But that’s completely irrational and wrong Lee :   ‘you are right ‘. I have a tip for myself …I’m too old to throw temper tantrums.  I know it’s fun to throw a tantrum , but it rarely solves whatever the problem is causing them. Realization creeps in when I have no idea what I was so mad about.  I may not be able to control every situation and its outcome  but I can deal with my attitude to control it . Keep your te...

...And I simply decided to be happy again.!

Yesterday , I got a bit emotional ( God Knows why ) and teary eyed.. ummmm, guess..I must have inhaled a cloud and my eyes started raining.. Heavy hearts , like heavy clouds in the sky, are best relieved by the letting of a little water.😊 We know Cloud 9.. A state of happiness on an achievement, recognition and emotional satisfaction. Being on cloud 9 is me being happy.. But happiness could be short lived. It is like a cloud. If you stare at it long enough, it evaporates….   And here , we fall off from the cloud.   But behind every cloud is another cloud… Let’s call it cloud 10, 11,12….. I’d say, let’s call it the sky.   I’d say we are the sky.   A cloud comes and dominates the sky. But the sky is still the sky. Depression tells you everything is going to get worse. But that’s just a symptom. We have to learn to discredit that. Once we’ve tasted the taste of the sky , we will forever look up. Let’s learn to be happy….to be happy. Let people ask us ‘when are we going...