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Plan B

I know, all you people have a Plan B. You share it with others or you don't share.But its still there.. Don't be Distraught.Get yourself collected and unperturbed. Its very good to have a Plan B in life. A Plan B is simply a different route to get to your destination when your situation changes. " A Contingency Plan " Even the best designed plans can get screwed up.That is life !  When life gets in the way, you need a contingency Plan or Plan B.! When in doubt -- keep moving There are also two kinds of truth. Truth of reasoning and truths of fact. From some years back, I've been thinking negatively a lot. Yes , I'm a great optimist.But when I'm trying to make a decision, I often think of the worst case scenarios. One thing that makes it possible to be a optimist, is if you have a contingency plan for when all hell breaks loose. Know something about Lawyers and their Plan B ?   A lawyer will do anything to win a case, sometimes he will ...

The Golden Glass

Teetotallers :  Please don’t read it again and again The table a few meters away. A beautiful painting on the wall behind the table. Probably a few thousand bucks. A handmade Vase with beautiful flowers. A pot with indigenous plants , rare ! All said and done, the attention shifts to the crystal glass with the golden glow. Half Golden and half Crystal. The eyes are fixed on this invention which rests on the table with  grandoise and in glory. The liquid sunshine.! This is the glass which has made deals , friendships and businesses prosper. The inspiration to all worldly things . Happiness is having a piece of chicken, a bottle of whiskey and giving the chicken to someone else. Truth is, it demands appreciation. You gaze first , then its time to drink. I’ve been often asked if I wanted to add water to the Gold..( you know it ). I say,” I’m thirsty , not dirty “. I suffer from writer’s block sometimes. But I guess, I’m just complaining. An excuse to ...

Police friend

Have used the word ‘Cop ‘not as a derogatory but out of respect to mark this article. “ It takes a special person …to risk so much for people who care so little “ For those who came in late: The term cop is derived from the old Irish Gaelic term coup meaning protector/servant of the people. It is a myth that the term derived from copper or meaning to seize. Have you ever told a traffic police officer a “Thank you “? ..You are driving past him at the cross road and he waves at the wind as if chopping it for you to pass through..” Thank you officer “!.He may not smile, he may not react, but deep down his heart he knows that he has achieved one good deed today. All it needs to call it a day, a good day…. Un-reacting to the heat, the showers and the chill, they stand there to elude the chaos which would have ensued if they were not standing there… I have done it a few hundred times, honestly..I have received a smile, a wave of hand and sometimes even a frown..Do...

Gone Overboard !

Once upon a time there came a man. Yes…you man, me man…The man used to hunt, protect and usually hold the family together. Days passed by….months and years   and centuries…. It was a colourful era. Then came the black and white period and this is where our knowledge of man came into existence….( have only heard of Adam and Eve or the stone age or the ice age , right ? never been there honestly ). The man who used to hunt , protect and hold the family together still did so in the b/w period and for as long as we remember, but times change my friend, times change. The sailing got tough, the waves bigger and storms touching deep down the spirit and back. The man is same, hunts, protects and holds but …oh my God !   Seriously?   A twist to the tail ? or   is it really a tale ? Present time:   part two of the b/w era. Cars, watches, belts, purses, clothes, shoes, caps the list is endless…..no no no no no…….. These are not a man’s business...

A pencil box story-True story

This article has been inspired by my 7 year old niece, a letter written to her mother defending a crime she has committed. ( Not literally ). Please have a heart and appreciate her commitment to announce her guilt and the will to accept it. The letter is verbatim.. No offence meant to the writer-                                                      A pencil box story-True story "Mom , hi ! Pls dont suspect me because i did not do anything, actualy my friend drop my pooch ( I think she meant pouch ), while sharping. and the sharping open was broken , mom its my responsibilety, but i did not follow your instrations ( instructions ).i am sorry . i am sure yoo will help me. pls keep away from dad . thankyou. i love you ....i am sorry." End. "I am a little pencil in the hand of a writing God, who is sending a love letter to the world " -M...

Mr and Mrs ....Hitched !

The battle between sexes has been going on for ages. Listening to the wife is like reading the terms and condition of market shares or a website product.---You understand nothing, still you say - "I agree "! I came home early that day and my wife asked me why ? I told her that my boss told me to go to hell...! ( I woke up the next day with a sore ,right eye ) I read somewhere that when your wife says " correct me if I am wrong ," just smile and agree. Don't start correcting her - Its a TRAP ! I've always said and stood my point.." I am not afraid of terrorists , I am Married "! By all means marry. If you get a good wife, you'll become happy. If you get a bad one , you'll become a philosopher.. I'm lucky, I got a good wife - and yet I am a Philosopher. One night I had a dream, the one which is called a nightmare - I was screaming " No, please don't eat me !I have a wife and kids - eat them "! ( I remember...

A wish to live -- A will to die

This brings to a conclusion that we simply don"t want the life currently living, meaning we don't want to change the current lifestyle. All you need to do is change your life.Change what you do everyday and pursue a life what you like. " A change brings opportunity " How can I be happy? Buy experiences instead of things.Find a job or hobby where your experiences flows.Visualize having a good day.Starting small, making progress. Don"t overthink about your past and future.Both are uncontrollable and unchangeable. Do not try to find happiness......Be happy anywhere, anytime, anyhow. ! Always have a escape plan. Leonardo Da Vinci once said - " While I thought that I was learning to live , I have been learning how to die. !" Lets make life a journey.Not a journey with intention of arriving safely in a well preserved body. But by loudly manifesting --"WOW , What a Ride !!" On the funny side , do you wish to be remembered? Lea...

I am ... Obsolete

Overeducated , but underskilled. I realized yesterday that whatever it took me to do,make,adjust,and strive, I am now obsolete.. I've worked at offices where I had to changes desks twice and many times. I had put so much thought and effort into personalizing my space ,and making it"me". However, the thing we have to remember is that the change is actually what makes us who we are.. " Pessimists are usually right and optimists are usually wrong but all the great changes have been accomplished by optimists " --Thomas L Friedman They say I'm old fashioned, and live in the past, but sometimes I think progress progresses' too fast ! Not in use any more , have been replaced by something newer and better and fashionable ! I think I went out with the ark....... A massive change is required ---RIGHT NOW!! SIGH !!!!!!!!!!

Fear-Testing times...

Hi,  Recently I've been meeting people who knowingly - unknowingly have expressed their fears. Fear to communicate, fear to express themselves , fear to act, fear to companionship, fear to judge,  fear to know and the list goes on...  I realized that I am on the same road all tread.  Presenting you a budget of some great pieces of art and work. Let's together, overcome it and reign supreme over this dreaded word "Fear"! To all,  my people,  relevant or not..                              😱😱😱 On the other side of every fear door, lie gorgeous gifts - Robin Sharma The only thing you have to fear is fear itself and. .... 🕷 spiders.... ! Be fearless my man!  Take risks and go where there are no guarantees. The road less traveled are full of barricades, thorns and stoney terrain. But it is this road where your character is truly tested.  I've...

A mom's day

I know, I've seen,  my mother,  my wife,  sister,  sis-in-laws, all of them you. .....! Being a mom is a difficult job,  but you need not always be serious while you are at it. Getting on with your life and taking it with a pinch of salt is the best you can do if you are a mother. Please moms,  have some fun moments in your daily lives..!                         To cheer you up 🤓 " silence is golden we know ....Unless you have kids,  then silence is just suspicious! " Waking your kids up for school the first day after a break is almost as much fun as giving birth to them... . ( Ol' jungle saying) When I leave the house,  I know that behind every mom is a basket full of dirty laundry. I've seen the ladies in the house work at it.**The quickest way for a mother to get her children's attention is to sit down and look comfortable. . I've often heard my wife say" I don't want t...