Pramod

  Hey..guys..if you’r reading this and you are in a bad spot , mentally or anything , I hope you just feel better soon and have a good day…! Am not going to spoil the ending for you , but everything is going to be Ok..hahahaha We often forget to remind ourselves that it’ll be OK…you know… Remind ourselves that things have changed. People have changed. But they changed for a reason.. We just have to let go and move on ..! Yeah…I know…it’s going to be hard , going to be lonely ..but just hold on to it ..will you..?.. Because who is to say tomorrow won’t be the best day of our life ..? Have you seen a glow stick ?...you know …we need to break it before it shines…!..Yeah…Sometimes we need to break before we shine !! And …let me tell you ..it’s okay if we have some flaws…sahi..na..? Our problem ? We are constantly being told to “ Stay Strong “ …but you know what ?..It’s okay to not always be strong …it’s okay to break down …it’s okay to fall…..Just get back up..! Ours is a strange...

  Our life is very well.. bloody complicated.. Missing somebody , want to meet up with somebody , have questions , we want to be understood , want something , love someone …ohhhh….the works ..! How do I make it simple then..? It is never simple to keep things simple…I guess..! We’ve heard of wardrobe malfunctions….I used to wonder what causes it , you know..?..Then I found out that when you over-think what you’re wearing , that’s when wardrobe malfunctions happen..! The more real we are , the more simple it seems…it becomes easier to be a part of it , to stay low, to stay quiet , not to expect much and enjoy what we have … I’ve seen people always figuring out something or the other…why do you want to figure it out ? Life’s so simple and you just have to stop trying to figure it out ! The focus is all that matters …and not letting ourselves to be overwhelmed ..! Once I had a fight..and I punched him in the face …that way , I made it simple. Hahahaha…..Hmmm…one day I’m going to f...

Have you ever seen a flattened squirrel on the road..yeah ? .. guess the squirrel failed to take a decision..you know ? We are not so perfect.... eh?..but yes…we are enough ..right ? These many years.. I’ve seen people …honestly …me too.. complaining   we are not where we want to be ….you know ..? but ..yes..we are where we need to be ..! Half of our lives is exhausted proving ourselves to others.. At the end of the day , and when we think about it , we realize , was it worth it..man? We are not doing it all…but yaa…we are doing something ..and that is enough..I think.. We are enough…no ? I read somewhere …“ There is nothing to prove and nothing to protect. I am who I am and it’s enough !” I understood then…that we have to acknowledge sometimes that this moment is enough . The place is enough ..I am enough..! I feel that it’s a shame how hard we could be on ourselves…ummm..we treat others with more love than we treat ourselves…you know ? Actually we deserve to be celebrat...

  There’s always a moment when you realize what it’s going to be .. when you see two things fitting together to make a surprising third ..you know …? That gives you that little ecstatic moment of .. “ oh..! that’s why..” Yes…inspirations do come from day to-day life…ummm…not necessarily ahaa moments ! but things that just make you raise your eyebrows..! I think inspiration is kind of laid out there.. Just need practice to recognize when it happens and record it so we can come back to it .. Times are tiring these days…we don’t need information..we’ve all got that now …right ? all we need is those “ ahaa” moments ..the awareness , we need things that actually shift and change .. This moment …the “ ahaaa “ moment ..that is ..won’t happen until we come to a place where we stop defending ourselves. So…what is this aha moment ? Ok…was just trying to recollect a song heard three days back..trust me …it did not hit me for three days..now. suddenly , today , the song started buzzing my ...

  Confidence is not “ they will like me   , “…..confidence is ..” I’ll be fine if they don’t !” Our confidence has been rocked many times in the recent past..the ‘ Ifs and Buts ‘ in our lives has made it   more difficult ,   things to analyze what could have been right and what could have possibly gone wrong ….right ? We gain strength , courage and confidence by every experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face .   This way , we are able to say it our ourselves , “ I lived through this horror “. Guess , action breeds confidence and courage.. We’ve got this one big struggle …confidence issues…It can be difficult not to compare ourselves with other people. We might lack confidence at work , in public speaking , or in meeting new people , which makes us fear that we aren't taken seriously or that we won't meet new friends. we just can't express ourselves until or unless we have that self-confidence , you know...? Yeah...!!  I will not be stop...

  One thing I’ve learnt from the past week experiences….Smile….breathe and go slowly..! Sometimes the best thing you can do , is not think…not wonder..not imagine …Just breathe and have faith that everything will work out for best. Well, let’s just not be a perfect man or woman…Just breathe…. News in and news out…people are just stuck with Covid ..all are confused..there’s nothing much to do…so it seems…but sometimes the most productive thing you can do is just relax…! These many weeks , I’ve seen people run hereto and thereto.. Just scampering for something which is just not under the control. But is there a point ?..guys…we will get there when we are meant to get there and not one moment sooner …you know..?..so, relax, breathe and be patient …This one’s going to save your lives…trust me ..! Yes, we are allowed to scream…yes…we are allowed to cry…but let us not give up , just now..! Inhaling courage and exhaling fear might just be the right dose to everything…right ? We are ...

  Releasing stressful thoughts is necessary and cathartic…Being a Gemini , I guess I’m quick to summon a joke or a witty retort. But I am even quicker to be struck with a new fear or worry….No…no…no…I’m not sharing a secret, so let us not get wild ideas…ok?...hahahaha It’s no shame talking to yourself..or even , watching the leaves fall or the clouds pass overhead is an important reminder that despite your stress ,   the world is , in fact , still turning…! Healing yourself is the greatest comeback….I think ! The comeback comes when you are talking to yourself….I often do…in front of the mirror…you know….? And guess what ? I make myself laugh too much ...I think I should date me ....! hahahaha I’ve often shared that I write to inspire and relate to you..”We “ is very important ..I don’t want to be me, myself and I ….I think I’m really getting tired of these three gentlemen..hahahaha Talking to yourself, relieves us of our stress. We don’t need medication , we are stronger ...