“ Dekhte Hai “

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Long time …No ?

The activities down the weeks were exhausting. Never forgetting , how confused the weather was , too.

Looking  up  the sky, I saw it puzzled and disoriented. As if asking – ‘should I rain or should it be the winds….only ?’  hmmmmm…

Well, as mortals …all we could muster is  “ bring it on ! “ ……jo hoga dekha jayega ….!

Mind Set : Whatever happens , happens …! OK !


We can’t control everything …..but eventually all things fall into place ……until then …..let’s laugh at the confusion ….look up at the sky and live the moment !


Lately , a friend posted this -  “ Be the reason someone smiles today ….or the reason they drink….whatever works ! “……. Hmmmm….. I think , I am going to drink today….that way … I’ll smile too…hahahahaha

My wife’s watching me write this …..I have this feeling , there are going to be two glasses now …….ummmmmm….never mind !


We are in adulthood…kids are grown up….dreams pursued , fast and furious…..some accomplished ….some to reach ….Sometimes as parents , we feel winners …. Sometimes we are still running to reach a goal , set by us ….but accomplished by our off springs..!

Adulthood , is like looking  both ways before crossing the street , and suddenly you get hit by a plane..!hahahahha. -quote-


I want to infuse my life with action….Let’s not wait for it to happen …let’s make it happen , friends !

We all need to …right ?

Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes ….let reality be reality …let things flow naturally…..no?


The struggle is …we’ve got to make tough decisions  , sometimes unpopular decisions too…if it’s right…and willing to accept mistakes….also !

There’s no pressure guys….just enjoy the process…be miserable or motivate yourself …we have one life to live ……it’s our choice …


There are people out there …who hate me and who say I’m vain and whatever…But actually , it’s all part of my success…you know …We are all made to be the best !

But I love to write ….having said that , I’m being myself …I’m doing what I love…and guess , that’s all that matters !

Hmmmm…..life happens ….and I write about it whenever I can !


Hey…!...actually , it’s a journey of discovery…it’s a process of transformation ….there are moments of happiness and moments of despair…! Right ?


I’ve often heard people say…..errr……me too…..” kya zindagi hai “…….but then I realized that life doesn’t happen to me…. I happen to life ….a reason ….you know ?

I read a quote while in research of this article….. “ Everything happens for a reason “….

Ummmm…..it would be really nice to know that reason…….hahahahahahaha…….guess , it might be physics !


We all know ….someday , everything will make perfect sense….

So , for now ….let’s laugh at the confusion , the bemusements….. and keep reminding ourselves that everything happens for a reason….!


Tally Ho !


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